Jesus told us to patch up our conflicts before coming to the Eucharist. He knew that quarrels, tension, and anger are a vicious cycle until we find forgiveness. Here are some ways to invite forgiveness and peace into your home, and to help teach your children how to do it better when it's their turn.
- Don't let a problem drag on unresolved.
- Pick the right time to discuss problems or emotional issues.
- Make sure there's enough time to deal with the conflict.
- Have family meetings to resolve disputes before they reach the boiling point.
- NEVER hit anyone or resort to ANY kind of abuse.
- Share a blessing before bedtime as a sign of peace.
- Look for ways to offer an olive branch.
- Be willing to offer an apology, sincerely.
- Be willing to forgive from the heart.
- Be willing to accept forgiveness.
- After you have forgiven, don't bring it up again—ever.
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